There are so many French words in the English language that, were we not so afraid of looking foolish, we should all be able to speak French. Well, sure the pronunciation is ridiculously impossible, but we think people who speak English with a foreign accent are sexy, so doesn’t the same go for us?  As a kid, without such fear, I would file away in my brain any  words I came across — most were food-related –combine them with words from common phrases like “c’e la vie”  and think I could speak French. I even told everyone to call me Frenchy. I must have been a riot. C’e l’enfante comique!

As an adult with decades of language study under my belt, I now mostly know how much I don’t know, but I have never encountered anything but delight and open arms when I try speaking the local language. So back to our little Paris vacation.

The first morning I scoped out the market street in our neighborhood, bought cheeses, baguette — I learned that you don’t buy for the whole day, but for each meal — some charcuterie, pastries and a bottle of wine. While Bordeaux can be found in supermarkets for as little as .79 Euro,  ours was a merchant of high quality wines and I spent about 9 Euro. So we enjoyed our first Paris meal in our flat that afternoon. Our evening meal, as we tend to do on our first night in town, was had out. We always look for, ask around for, a place that the locals favor, off the tourist beat. We were, even at 7:30, early. We ordered a variety of things to sample and everything was wonderful. As the place filled with locals, we kept seeing one thing being ordered over and over. I recognized it as Carpaccio and obviously it was the thing to eat as astarter or a light supper. I had my mission for the next day: I would learn about Carpaccio and serve it up for our supper.

It’s funny that things are right in front of you, but sometimes you don’t notice them. That  first morning, before we saw the plates of thin, bright slices of raw beef come out of the kitchen  at the restaurant and it became meaningful to me, I hadn’t noticed that the three butcher shops all had paper plates stacked up in the cases, with lovingly laid out slices of beautiful lean beef upon them, covered with plastic wrap.

Three butcher shops. So which one do I choose? When shopping markets, you might want to sample everyone’s wares, but I guarantee that if you are going to return day after day, this is the beginning of a relationship. And once established, you will find your loyalty rewarded with answers to questions, cooking instruction, conversation, the best quality products and a fair amount of freebies thrown into your sack because “Here! You’ll need some parsley” or an anchovy for a particular dish you’re talking about. Stray from your fruit and vegetable lady and don’t think she won’t care. Your next visit to her stand will have you lamenting the bruised tomatoes and wilted greens. By the way, you don’t handle the produce at the market. It gets chosen for you. So do you see how that can go? So how to choose? I usually look for the stand or shop that has a line of local middle-aged ladies with their baskets. They’re shopping for quality, service and value.

So I chose. When it was my turn, I pointed and said in perfect French (I’m joking):

“I would like to prepare the Carpaccio. That is the beef, is it not?”  It was and I went on to ask how it should be made.  Since I was not unfamiliar with the dish, it was easy enough to understand the ingredients and I could concentrate a bit harder to understand the proportions and the steps.  It all ended as it usually does: with a smiling butcher asking where I was from, expressing his surprise that an American tourist would try to speak French (let’s change that, people, shall we?), his delight in my interest in his recipe, and tossing a bunch of parsley into my sack.

Canova’s sculpture of Psyche and Eros.


Art Nouveaux entrances to subways were designed by Hector Guimard in the early 1900’s.


Bateau Bus, easy and cheap way to see the sights.


Sunday afternoon at Tuileries Garden


Geting a crepe in St. Germain.


A corner grocery


Ghost rider



Mmmmmmmussels! Home cooking wherever we are.


Le Chat Noir was a late 1800’s nightclub.